Anonymous asked: “have you ever had a pregnancy scare?”
I literally go about my day pretending I’m a queen. I also have a positive and exclusively optimistic mental framework. Frame your perception in a resourceful way. Don’t tell yourself self-defeating stories, don’t associate with negative things, don’t convince yourself you’re anything other than amazing.
Seriously? I’ve been the same weight give or take 10lbs for the past 5 years. Appreciate the concern though x
If people dislike you or judge you- it doesn’t matter. They don’t matter. Don’t see yourself as inferior. Don’t think that people’s inability to see your value means you should compromise yourself for the first person to “like” you. When you live your life with the hopes people like you- not narrowing out who your don’t like- then you’re creating a version of yourself to please others. Live for yourself and if people don’t like that so what? At least you’re happy and genuine. It may sound conceited, but live your life evaluating if you want other people to stick around. Not crossing your fingers with the hopes they’ll like and accept you. If someone judges you, that speaks to their character, not yours. You don’t need that shit in your life anyway.
As for anger management, I don’t have the best strategies. I’m just such a rational thinker, and affect doesn’t have a very strong hold over me. I just don’t think there are too many things that you should lend that kind of energy to. Being angry does nothing but detriment you. If I’m angry at something I evaluate the ways to change it and then act accordingly to remove that thing from my life. Be it a toxic friendship or relationship or irritating situation- let anger act as a compass to guide what to avoid in the future- but it’s senseless to give it too much energy.
Seek out a cutie and go flirt with him. But don’t be envious that your pals get more attention. You can have 20 numbers in your phone from guys who approached you- and still feel lonely and go home alone. Quality over quantity. Don’t get that confused.
You’re all talented and fascinating in some way. If it’s not in the same ways as the people you admire- that’s okay. Love yourself. Your challenges and the part of you that tells you you can’t do something are unresourceful motivations, They’re not true- or inherent to your being. You don’t need approval from anyone to live your life. You don’t need permission. Live your truth and disregard anyone who tries to convince you not to.
Sorry for this random selfie- I think I look pretty and I had something to say. Sue me. xox
Oh fuck. Where to begin. Well maybe more appropriately where to end. Life is an art to be played with, practiced, and mastered. I do that by living with passion for everything. Let it guide you and every day is lived richly through mistakes, experiences, routines, interactions. I’m passionate about the way I eat, the way I walk, the way I speak. I’m passionate about pleasure, sensation, intensity, experience. You can be passionate about every moment. It all depends how you distribute your attention and what elements of life you focus on. I have a profound enthusiasm for life, mainly because I think death is the end of consciousness. So I use my time wisely by believing it’s tremendously limited. Live forever in the years you’re given.
It’s so sad that some of the loveliest and kindest people dislike themselves a lot
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